Wednesday, December 19, 2007

Christmas Traditions: 25 Meaningful Ideas for Families

The holidays are a time to revel in the gratitude and love we feel for one another. Here are 25 meaningful ways to celebrate your togetherness this season.

1. Go for a family nature walk near your home to collect seasonal items that you can use in your holiday decor. If you live near a forest, the obvious choices are pine boughs and pinecones, but long dried grasses can look just as festive tied with a holiday bow.

2. Make a few handmade holiday cards this year as a family.

3. Make appreciation cards. Replace the annual Christmas letter in your holiday cards with a brief letter of appreciation for the recipient.

4. Create or purchase new ornaments each year for the tree. Create or shop for an ornament that reflects a defining event or sentiment for the year.

5. Enjoy a Family Night with special holiday crafts or games.

6. Start a Christmas themed puzzle somewhere in your home. A puzzle table, placed in a quiet room is great for holiday visitors. Whenever your guests want to get away from the action, they can retreat to work on the puzzle. This can be a great stress reliever, and it is wonderful for those guests who always have to be busy doing something.

7. Play special music. Ask everyone for their favorite holiday CD. Allow each family member to choose and keep them in the CD changer.

8. Take a photo of your children standing in a particular spot each year (in front of the tree, by the front door) anyplace that will be consistent from year to year. Make a special holiday ornament or scrapbook album that depicts the growth and change of your family each year.

9. Research the holiday traditions of your nationality. Adopt a few of these traditions into your annual celebration each year to celebrate your heritage.

10. Ask each child to write a Dear Santa letter. (Small children can draw pictures). Keep a special record of these letters in an album or treasure box.

11. Create an evening tradition of taking a family walk or drive in your neighborhood to view the holiday lights.

12. Cut snowflakes from wrapping paper, festive holiday advertisements, or holiday cards, and string them together into a festive garland.

13. Adopt a special cause each year and spend some time as a family helping those in need, or raising or donating money for a charity of your choice.

14. What are your favorite holiday memories? Pose the question tonight at the dinner table. Use the answers to plan the celebration. You may be surprised at the special memories that have nothing to do with gifts or elaborate events.

15. For fifteen minutes, write down things in your life that you are grateful for. Ask each of your family members to join you in creating their own lists.

16. Bundle up and head outside. Make snow angels or build a snow fort with your kids. When it is time to warm up, build a cozy fire and roast marshmallows in your living room.

17. What is your favorite homemade holiday treat? Write down the recipe, and share it with your friends. Encourage them to do the same.

18. Challenge each member of your family to fill a box or bag full of items to give away. Decide as a family where to make a donation.

19. What was the best book you read this year? With whom would you most like to share its message? Purchase a copy for them and drop it off, anonymously.

20. Take your family to a performance of The Nutcracker. Purchase a CD or DVD of the Nutcracker to bring the memories home.

21. The holidays can take their toll. Make a holiday tradition of recharging your own batteries. Gather your daughter and your best friend and head to the day spa for a much deserved pedicure or massage.

22. Reach out to those whom you have not seen all year. It takes a little extra effort this busy time of year, but make a goal to send a card or note to someone you think about but do not see much anymore.

23. Keep a "Joy Journal" this holiday season, in which you record the funny things your kids say, joyful times you share, your favorite things to do with your family (and by yourself), and all the things for which you are grateful. Use your Joy Journal as a reminder of the facets of your life (and this holiday season) that are really important.

24. Give small and simple gifts (homemade cookies or a small book) to a few of the people who make your everyday life easier, such as the trash collector and postal carrier.

25. Share your family traditions with friends and ask them to tell you about the family traditions that make their holidays sweeter.

Christmas Games

The Christmas holidays are a time of expectation and joy for young and old alike. If you're feeling that your celebrations have become routine and boring, there are plenty of ways that you can spice up your holiday season. There are so many things that can be experienced from creating new holiday traditions, such as making new memories for you and your family and friends to reminiscence about again and again. The benefits are numerous, and there is not a shortage of ideas that you can implement this Christmas season and add to next year.

Depending on the occasion you can modify and creatively explore any of the activities you would like to do. For example, any Christmas games or craft activities can be either for adult or church centered party groups, family night, your child friends, or just for a personal one on one experience with the child in your life. Inspirationally you may center all of your activities on a theme, and you may choose to center the activities on a secular or religious viewpoint. Then again you may also choose, depending on the appropriateness and circumstance of the occasion to mix it up, but investigate the different options for both.

The focus of Christmas is usually in most households centered on children, and this time of year for them is a magical experience. Not only can Christmas day be the day for anticipation of fun, but all through the month can be. Opportune times exist for creating memories that last, such as bad weather, winter school breaks, sick days, and sleepovers as a time to not only entertain, but to learn about personal abilities and creativity too. If your child is going to have a few friends over during the month of December, why not create, or search around for some Christmas time tongue twisters? Also, there are numerous songs to sing about the holidays, so dig out some carol sheet music and sing. Sick days are no fun for kids, so if they are able use some ole fashioned crayons and coloring books, add some stickers and a Christmas story to pass the time away. Creative times can be spent independently playing and learning holiday crossword puzzles and mazes. Personal or party time games and activities can be done with board games, such as bingo, scrap booking, or even in the kitchen. Making special candies like taffy or food for Santa's reindeer can be healthy and nutritious by munching on a few carrots before leaving them for Rudolph.

There are no shortages for ideas on games and activities, and places to shop for your supplies. Crafts and party idea books can be found in most book stores, discount stores such as Wal-Mart, craft supply stores, and even many free articles in newsletters on the internet can lead you in the right direction for new Christmas celebratory ideas. You don't have to break the bank account either to have lots of fun for the holidays either. Many ideas are free on the internet and you can use a lot of the household products in your home to make crafts. Items such as construction paper, glue, markers, scissors, cotton balls and paper plates can be made into face masks for Christmas characters such as an elf or a Santa face. There are other ways to create new traditions for your family such as inspiring them to take their crafts and use them as gifts for the less fortunate. May be a lonely neighbor, or a child or adult that needs a little compassion would be thrilled to receive them.

Christmas games and activities bring back the magic for adults and inspire children to dream. However, more importantly it teaches valuable lessons about not only creativity, and the necessary skills of problem solving, but it solidifies a sense of unity with in the family and community. Its life long lessons hopefully develop into unselfish habits of cooperation and thinking about the welfare of others. The time spent with others exemplify what the real meaning of the spirit of Christmas is - loving and treating others as we would like to be treated. Through your Christmas games and activities your holiday season will be one with a real spice of life and love. Remember, there are no better types of traditions than those.

History

CHRISTMAS

Traditionally observed on December 25, Christmas or Christmas Day is an annual holiday that celebrates the birth of Jesus. Although some churches observe it on different dates, the fact is that the precise chronology of Jesus' birth and death is yet to be determined. Christmas has many sides to it, some religious and some secular, including the exchange of gifts, the Santa Claus myth, decoration and display of the Christmas tree, and religious ceremonies.

History

We can trace the origin of Christmas to several pagan holidays. It was since AD 354 that the christians in the West started celebrating the birthday of Jesus Christ on December 25, replacing an earlier date of January 6. By that time, the christians had appropriated several pagan festivals and traditions of the season that were practiced in many parts of the Middle East and Europe, as a means of stamping them out. Among those festivals were Saturnalia of the Romans, the birth celebrations of sun - God Attis in Phrygia (December 25) and Persian sun - God Mithras (December 17-24).

The Nativity

The Nativity refers to the birth of Jesus Christ. The christians celebrate Christmas by remembering or re-creating the Nativity. While the Eastern Orthodox Church practices the Nativity Fast in anticipation of the birth of Jesus, the Western Church mostly prefers celebrating Advent. Children often enact the events of the Nativity, or sing some of the numerous Christmas carols that reference the event. Some christians display a small re-creation of the Nativity in their homes, using small figurines to portray the key characters.

Santa Claus

In Western culture, a main feature of Christmas is the exchange of gifts among friends and family members, some of them being attributed to Santa Claus. Santa Claus is also known by other names, such as Father Christmas, Saint Nicholas, Kris Kringle, Saint Basil and Father Frost. Santa Claus is based on the tale about Saint Nicholas, or Sinterklaas, who gave gifts on the eve of his feast day of December 6. He became associated with Christmas in 19th century America and was renamed Santa Claus or Saint Nick. In Britain and France too, Father Christmas and Pere Noel respectively were made to adopt the Santa image.

Christmas tree

The Christmas tree owes its origin to the ancient pagan idea, later appropriated by the christians, that the evergreen tree represents a celebration of the renewal of life. Christmas trees first became popular in Germany in the late 18th century. Christmas trees may be decorated with lights and ornaments. The poinsettia then became associated with Christmas, while other popular holiday plants include holly, mistletoe, red amaryllis, and Christmas cactus. In some parts of the world, it is traditional to decorate the outside of houses with lights and sometimes with illuminated sleighs, snowmen, and other Christmas figures. Town authorities also hang Christmas banners from street lights and place Christmas trees in the town square.

Feasts and cards

A special meal of Christmas dishes is usually served on Christmas Day or Christmas Eve. Another extremely popular tradition is to send Christmas cards to friends and family members. Cards can also be produced with messages such as "Season's Greetings" or "Happy Holidays", to include senders and recipients who may not celebrate Christmas.

Christmas History

The history and origin of this most popular holiday of the year, Christmas, can be traced to something above 4000 years back in time, and is associated with the early Mesopotamians. It is widely believed that many traditions and ceremonial aspects of Christmas can be found at a time long before Christ was born, the time when the early Mesopotamians lived. The history of Christmas is, therefore, way back in centuries.

The Mesopotamians had a twelve day-long New Year’s festival called the Zagmuk, which was celebrated to help their chief god Marduk in his battle against the monsters of chaos. Each year in winter, the Mesopotamian king traditionally visited Marduk’s temple and at the end, the custom was to kill the king who would then go with Marduk in the battlefield. However, the real king was spared and a mock king (who was almost always a criminal dressed in royal robes) was slain.

Sacaea was a similar celebration of the Persians and Babylonians where roles were reversed for a day--slaves became masters and masters slaved about as servants.

Much in the same street as Zagmuk and Sacaea, the ancient Greeks had a festival to help their god Kronos in his battle against Zeus and his Titans.

The Scandinavians had a festival called Yuletide which celebrated the return of the sun after a long, lightless, chilly winter. Special feasts were held around big bonfires made with the Yule log.

Romans were no exception either. They had their god Saturn to celebrate. Starting mid-December and ending January 1, the Roman festival Saturnalia, featured boisterous shouts “Jo Saturnalia”, elaborate masquerades, exchanging gifts, holding special feasts, decking up halls with laurel wreaths and putting up candles on evergreens. This Saturnalia festival has a close similarity with today’s Christmas celebrations and hence the history of Christmas is heavily linked to this ancient Saturnalia. But the Christians refused to honor the pagan Roman god Saturn. The early Christians couldn’t come to terms with such a frantic Christmas celebration, and wanted to observe the birthday of their Lord with devout offerings and sincere devotion.

However, as time went on and Christianity spread to every nook and corner of the world, the Church slowly loosened up a little, and came to accept the merry-making during Christmas. Today, Christmas is really incomplete without those decorations of tinsel and streamers, the lights and candles, the piping hot turkey with pies around, the decked halls, the mistletoe on the doorway, the holly, and the stockings over the fireplace, the bells on the Christmas tree and the colorful greetings and gifts.

Now ever wondered why Christmas is celebrated on December 25 ? Is it the day when Jesus Christ was born ? Well, nobody knows for sure exactly when Christ was born. There had been a lot of dispute over fixing December 25 as Christmas. In the 2nd century A.D, Hippolytus claimed this day as Christ's birthday. Then January 6 was declared by the Eastern Church as the day of His birth. Finally, in 350 A.D, the Bishop of Rome, Pope Julius I, fixed December 25 as the official day for Christmas. This date, the day of the winter solstice, was wisely chosen with the intention to outweigh the popular pagan Roman holiday of Saturnalia.

Story Of Christ

Jesus Christ's coming to this world was predicted by the prophets years before His birth. The Old Testament has in it, over 300 such prophecies. And, you'll be truly surprised to know that all of these proved true—from Christ's miraculous birth, His sinless life, His atrocious death to His astounding resurrection. Now, if you want to know the complete story of Christ, read on.

There lived in the village of Nazareth a carpenter called Joseph, who married a young virgin named Mary of the same village. Mary once had a beautiful dream in which an angel came to her and said that she had been chosen to bear the Divine Child, Jesus, the Son of God. But the young couple was forced to leave Nazareth and return to their towns of birth following a whimsical declaration of the emperor there. And so, they set off for Bethlehem.

It was a very long journey spanning several days and nights. Mary, who was bearing Jesus at the time, was carried by a donkey, and Joseph walked beside her. After some days, they reached Bethlehem. Desperately looking for shelter, they were turned down by every potential host. At last, the fatigued couple chanced upon a cave in the hills, with a stable in it. Joseph made a bed of hay for his weary wife. The next night, Mary gave birth to the Son of God and named Him Jesus, as was instructed by the angel in her dream.

The birth of Jesus was marked by the appearance of a bright star over Bethlehem, which could be seen from miles around. In the hilly fields nearby, some shepherds were managing their flocks, when an angel appeared before them and told them that a Savior was born in Bethlehem. The shepherds were also told that they were to find the babe in a manger, wrapped in swaddling clothes. They soon reached the place where Jesus was born to Joseph and Mary. Also, following the shining star in the sky, came the Three Wise Men from the east, who are more popularly known as the Magi. Bowing before the newborn, they offered gifts of gold, frankincense and myrrh to Him. These gifts had a special symbolic significance. The gold symbolized Kingship- that He would be a King. Frankincense symbolized His Divine nature, and myrrh stood for a life of suffering and sacrifice.

Do you know where the word ‘Christmas’ sprang from ? Christmas is derived from the words ‘Cristes Maesse’, meaning Christ's Mass. It is also sometimes referred to as Xmas. This ‘X’ in the word stands for ‘Xristos’, and means Christ in Greek. Xristos Mass is shortened to Xmas. However, this shouldn't be looked upon as a move to bump off Christ's name from Christmas. It’s simply another way of referring to Christmas. So wish a 'Merry Christmas' to your loved ones and dive into celebrating the holidays !

Christmas Present Ideas

I don't enjoy shopping for others. Whether it is the holiday season or any special occasion, I simply don't enjoy shopping. I just never know that to buy for someone else and always think I've gotten something that they won't enjoy or appreciate. Christmas and holiday season is coming. I need some ideas for christmas presents. What do I get for someone's milestone of 60 years? like my father. How do I pick out something that shows my father how much I love him? How can a present symbolize his 60 years of existence? See, I really need some christmas present ideas. I asked my mother and my aunts what they had in mind. Each one of them had something generic and typical. I could not imagine getting my father another book or shirt, the same presents he's always received. I began to rack my brain for christmas present ideas. I came up with some ideas but quickly ruled them out. The christmas present ideas that I was getting were simply not good enough. I had to come up with something wonderful and unexpected. But, this wonderful gift had to fit in my budget. That could be difficult. I found a few websites that had some great ideas. In fact, I found a site that had gift baskets for milestone christmass. Their christmas present ideas were rather unique in having the basket filled with things that represented his christmas year. They filled the baskets with music from his christmas year, newspapers dated from his actual birthdate, and other memorabilia. I decided that would definitely be on my list of christmas present ideas. I tried to think of any christmas present ideas that he may have hinted about in the past, but could not remember any of them. I even asked my mother if she remembers him hinting about any christmas present ideas before and she could not think of any either. My husband and I sat down and talked about what my father liked. We made a list of his hobbies and his passions. From that list, we did get some christmas present ideas, but nothing that really stood out to me. Then, I remembered his love of airplanes. He used to be a jet mechanic in the Navy and always talks about how much he enjoyed that. He hasn't been up in a small plane in years. I tried to come up with some christmas present ideas that had to do with airplanes. I found a local air show that would be going on one week before his christmas. At the air show, they would have old fighter jets and planes from various wars. They would have one particular plane from World War II that you could take a flight in. I checked into it and while it was out of my price range, but I had to do it for him. He would love it. I made the reservation and knew it was perfect. When I got home, I threw out my list of christmas present ideas. I had found the ultimate gift for him.

A Traditional English Christmas Dinner

A traditional English Christmas dinner consists of roast turkey and stuffing, roast potatoes and vegetables, bread sauce, cranberry sauce and gravy, followed by Christmas pudding with brandy butter.

For lots of people, it just wouldn't be Christmas without a turkey. But in fact, in this country the tradition of eating turkey at Christmas only dates from the 19th century, when it gradually began to replace goose as the Christmas meal. A Christmas tradition involving the turkey is to pull its wishbone. The person left with the larger piece of the bone makes a wish.

Nut roast has become the traditional Christmas dish for many vegetarians. For a festive twist, try adding cranberries (fresh or dried) or chestnuts.

Heaps of vegetables are another traditional part of Christmas lunch. Many people will eat more fruit and vegetables on Christmas day than on any other day of the year.

A vital part of the traditional Christmas is the roast potatoes. Cranberry sauce is great for adding flavour.

Another Christmas classic is the Christmas pudding, with its rich concoction of dried fruits such as raisins, currants and sultanas.

The Christmas pudding known today began life as Christmas porridge called Frumenty, a dish made of wheat or corn boiled up in milk. Now, a Christmas pudding is a brown pudding with raisins, nuts and cherries. It is served with custard or brandy butter. Often brandy is poured over the pudding, which is then set a light as it is carried to the table. The lights are turned off so people can see the flames.

Christmas table should be just as festive as the rest of the home. It can be use pine garland, candles, Christmas ornaments and other special touches to create a memorable holiday table.

When Queen Victoria came to the throne, the roast beef was the centrepiece of the Christmas feast in the North, while the goose was the traditional fare of the South.

Sharing Family Christmas History

Christmas is celebrated across the world with immense joy and happiness. It is one of the most joyous and celebrated occasions. Christmas gifts are the integral components of Christmas celebration. People exchange beautiful Christmas gifts with their loved ones. The real spirit of Christmas lies in the Christmas decorations. People across the world buy beautiful Christmas tree. These Christmas trees are decorated with stars, gifts and bells. Since time immemorial, people are following these Christmas traditions. People celebrate these Christmas traditions in accordance with their religion.

A new and exciting way to share family Christmas history is the creation of a shadow box ornaments. This new craft idea is sweeping the nation as a way to preserve family history while sharing in during the holiday season. With a bit of creativity, family treasures, photos and other special heirlooms, your shadow box ornaments can be a statement about your family history. Preparation, Planning And Passion Will Create Memorable Family History Shadow Box Christmas Ornaments. Taking the time to find the perfect box or wooden case in which to showcase your family heirlooms will probably be one of the most challenging things you will encounter when working on this craft project.

It is important that time is taken to wrap, stain or paint the shadow boxes to enhance their overall appearance. It is also a wonderful addition to include a small hand written note explaining the importance of the heirloom and why it is being preserved in such a fashion. It is also very important to include a photograph of the owner of the heirloom within the box, either on the lid or within the box itself. Each of these pieces works together like a puzzle to explain and showcase both the family member and the heirloom that is showcased your family history upon your Christmas tree.

If you take a few moments to look around your house, you will undoubtedly find man small treasures from different people in your life that would fit wonderfully in a shadow box ornament upon your Christmas tree. In most lives, there are many moments and trinkets in our personal history that remind us of friends and special moments in our life. Creating family history Christmas ornaments is a fun way to display those special moments. For the newlyweds, a boutonnière or the bride’s hankie could be folded or placed within a shadow box, a newborn baby’s name tags or a toddler’s first lock of hair, family pocket watches, cameos, class rings and baby rattles all make wonderful examples of what someone might want to include in their shadow box creations.

If it is difficult to know where to start when trying to gather ideas, pick a person or an experience within your own life and seek out small memorabilia that reflects the history shared with this one person. When you find the perfect pieces, combine them into a thematic image and create your shadow box family history Christmas ornament. Once you have completed one, you will discover that the rest of your ideas will be easy to create.